'She said it's normal, but it wasn't': Husband shares emotional post after losing wife and baby due to ignored health warnings

A man has opened up about a devastating personal tragedy on social media, using his story to highlight the importance of mental health awareness. Recently, he lost both his wife and unborn child, and his emotional post on Reddit has since resonated with thousands, sparking conversations about grief, support, and the need to prioritise mental well-being.

In his post, the man recounted the harrowing day when everything changed. "That day I lost everything. My wife and our baby. Both gone. One moment we were rushing to the hospital, hoping to welcome our child, and the next, doctors told me they couldn't save either," he wrote.

He shared that he had initially posted his thoughts in a smaller group but decided to share again after many people reached out, seeking guidance and sharing their own struggles.

He described his wife’s health issues during pregnancy, which she often downplayed. "She was not keeping well for many days… swelling in her legs, headaches, stomach pain. Doctor had told her to come for check-ups, take rest, eat properly. But she never took it seriously," he said. Despite his concerns, she dismissed them as “normal” and kept her suffering hidden.

The man also highlighted the lasting impact of her upbringing. "From childhood, her parents never gave her space, never listened. They always told her to keep quiet, never complain. She grew up thinking asking for help is a weakness. Even with me, she never shared fully. During pregnancy, she thought she had to endure silently."

Ultimately, her body succumbed to pre-eclampsia during delivery, a condition that, if caught earlier, could have been managed. Tragically, both his wife and baby could not be saved.

Closing his post, the man urged readers to seek help and speak about their struggles. "Anyone who is struggling, please don't keep pain inside. Talk to someone, take care of your mental health, go to the doctor if needed. It can save your life and the life of your loved ones."

Through his candid account, he is using personal tragedy to challenge the stigma around discussing mental health and emotional vulnerability.

His post has garnered widespread empathy on social media, with users offering condolences and encouragement. One commenter wrote, "This is so heartbreaking to read. Share your pain with people who care and can understand. Time will heal the pain."

Another highlighted a common societal problem: "This mentality of 'women should endure pain silently' is so unnecessary. Everyone deserves care and attention, especially during pregnancy."